When we think that we have done something wrong or have been the architect of a bad design, we tend to be merciless on ourselves. Well, we do if we are Virgos. No inner-voice says 'never mind, we all make mistakes, all will yet turn out fine.' Instead, our imaginary dialogues with ourselves contain the cruellest criticisms. 'You fool! What is the matter with you? Now you have ruined everything!' We wouldn't be so horrible, even to our worst enemies. And right now, you have every right and reason to be your own best friend.