Years ago, Dale Carnegie wrote a famous book called, How To Win Friends And Influence People. He spawned many imitations. Strangely though, nobody has written an instruction manual on how to make enemies and hack people off. But then some things come naturally to us all! The person who is now causing you the most aggravation required no special training. Your desire to return the fire is understandable, but you will get much further this weekend, if, for the time being at least, you turn the other cheek.